Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim. – Nora Ephron
Have you ever wondered how a high-value woman thinks? What’s her mindset and how she set boundaries for a man who pulls her away?
Well! Becoming a high-value woman demands a different you. And, all it starts with a strong mindset that never let you suffer from anyone or anything, no matter who the person is and how the things are.
In fact, the mindset shift is the most crucial step in your journey of becoming a high-value woman.
Yes! All those undreamt aspirations are now coming true for a woman – their independence, well-being, freedom, and so many others.
They are kind of ruling in every arena, creating a high value for themselves, regardless of what other people chatter.
The woman in today’s era is learning to stand up for themselves and eliminating the fraught behavior by anyone plaguing their lives. It is like an accolade for how far they have come over decades and finally getting that equal respect, which they had been craving for a long time.
Let’s know how she trained herself to become a woman of high-value.
Traits That Make A Woman High-Value
When we talk about being a high-value woman, it first begins with having that mindset right on track.
A high-value woman is aware of her worth and she knows there is more to her life than oozing her energy into mess – whether it’s for achieving success or when he pulls you away.
This is how you can become one of those high-value women who set an example for other women around the world.
1. Self-Love
Everything revolves around this. The reason I said this was because once you know how to love yourself, you will not need anyone to complete any type of void in your life.
The love that you have exuded towards yourself is more than enough to make you feel powerful and proud about who you are.
You will not lack any vitality, instead, the need for someone nullify when you covered up yourself with all the love you deserve.
You will not be afraid to walk out of toxic surroundings because you are aware of what the dark side can lead to. You will rather create your path and surround yourself with people who never tend to look down on you.
This is one of the major traits that a high-valued woman carries in her life.
LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO SET BOUNDARIES. YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ARE PRECIOUS. YOU GET TO CHOOSE HOW YOU USE IT. YOU TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU BY DECIDING WHAT YOU WILL AND WON’T ACCEPT. – ANNA TAYLOR
2. Passion Runs In Her Veins
A high-value woman tends to live her life in abundance, digging more into her passion and pursuing it thoroughly.
When she works on something she loves with that same zeal, its worth becomes even more essential and high.
A high-value woman never gets dampened by challenges and big life changes, rather she takes it positively and utilizes it as her motivation. She doesn’t blame other people for any of the highs and lows in her life, instead holds complete responsibility for what she chose.
3. Knows Her Worth
Being praised by others can be contingent, therefore she tends to structure herself in a way that no one’s validation except hers matter about herself.
She becomes her judge. She doesn’t need to compare herself to the type of skin she has or the body because she knows its all start from within.
She keeps herself grounded to her worth and doesn’t let anyone’s comments drop in the way of how she lives her life. She entitles herself to be treated well and doesn’t overawe by the standards she set for herself.
She knows how to maintain those values and amalgamate them with her lifestyle.
The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before. -Albert Einstein
4. Hope For The Best But Plans For Worst Too
If a woman has sown the seeds of this particular mindset, always remember, a high-value tag will be right there to welcome her.
You may have realized that a glass of expectations comes with future possibilities of anxiety, depression, feeling miserable, feeling unworthy and impatience if unmet. Therefore, neutralize yourself and you will find it easy to cope up when you see the worst of it.
You know the day I realized the worth of staying neutral, the less it hurt me when things didn’t work out the way i want it.
I always hope for the best but also trained my mind to plan for the worse scenario too. It helped me to reduce the pain and suffering that expectations gave.
5. Standards To Be Maintained
If you want to be a high-value woman, always remember, your standards should be your dictator.
I read somewhere that “Class and sexy are not oxymorons”.
A woman of high standard stays authentic to herself and her surroundings. She doesn’t believe in hypocrisy, rather she prefers being the smart and classy one.
If you want to possess this similar quality, remember, not to compete with anything like, gaining attention, wanting love, and appreciation from others.
Do not entertain these aspects because they lead to degrading your worth. Always remember power comes with responsibility and when you have awarded yourself with class, don’t deteriorate it.
A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous. – Coco Chanel
6. Never Chases Anyone
Another key trait of a high-value woman is that she never chases a guy.
She knows when someone walks away deliberately and gives a million excuses for it, he doesn’t deserve her time and energy.
Listen to me when I say that there are men out there who do not hold the courage to stand up for you, tell you how they feel about you, or commit to you. Therefore, always keep your standards high and end the chase. Instead, let them chase you.
7. Speaks Her Mind
One who carries the trait of high value in her, she doesn’t need to manipulate anything around her. She doesn’t let anyone stop her from speaking her mind.
Her comfort is in speaking out about the things she believes in. She knows how essential it is to present her thoughts as they are equally important as others. She is aware of when to draw a line to maintain her value.
A high-value woman carries beautiful traits like expressing her words through creative mediums like poetry, painting, etc… For instance, if I talk about myself, I express myself via poetry and quotes, which gives me an upper hand making me feel quick-witted and perceptive.
I can hear the roar of women’s silence. – Thomas Sankara
8. Generous and Caring
I have always believed that, if you are willing to be a high value woman, a quality that you should possess is of being a good human being in general.
Such women treat others the way she wants to be treated. She is aware of the term empathizing and she knows how to show it. When she love with all her heart, there is no filters or nothing, its purely her.
Conclusion:
A high-value woman is a lot of things from being vulnerable (which she doesn’t think makes her weak, instead it gives her a new perspective and helps her maintain the values and desires she believes in).
She is the owner of her life and doesn’t authorize anyone else to rule over it. She is the writer of her own story and I wish every woman has the power to do the same.
A man’s face is his autobiography. A woman’s face is her work of fiction. – Oscar Wilde
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