Looking to impress a girl whom you have been eyeing on since long?
It is said that attracting people towards you should always come naturally. Do not imply too much that you are trying to impress someone, instead try to turn things the other way round.
Love isn’t just one word you see, it is a combination of several emotions put together and yet we can never find the ultimate sum of it because its like a black hole.
If someone is willing to win my heart, what I believe is, the entire flow should be realistic. As no one likes anyone behind the mask while approaching them and then removing it when all things have fallen into place.
Let me share you my favorite quote on love that really moves me whenever I read it:
Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly, and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love. – Leo Buscaglia
Avoid Taking A Wrong Turn!
In a world full of social media addicts, people prioritize posting about their relationship or should say boast about it more than actually upholding it in real life.
Reel life is quite convenient to display love and affection but one should know how to make it happen in real life as well.
A few people tend to pick a different pathway like going for prank calls, trying to force a relation, spam messaging on Instagram, stalking and so many foul ways that make the other person uncomfortable.
Some think it is a fairytale, wherein the girl will look at you, you will do some cute things, music will play in the background, and BAM!!! You won her heart.
If you ask me, it already sounds like fiction poetry that is so smooth like a symphony.
The way to my heart is through your heart. – Marty Rubin
How To Win A Girl’s Heart?
If you are actually willing to win a women’s heart, you ought to pick up the old school way. Here are some healthy tips that can help you win a girl’s heart:
1. Transparency Is The Key
To be a worthy partner or to win a girl’s heart, you should be transparent enough. The more you keep things crystal clear, the more you will have chances to build a great impression.
Anyhow avoiding transparency is not at all a good idea. It won’t only break her trust but also disrupt your bond and then finally you may end up loosening the string.
So, if you really want me to appreciate you, please engage in healthy and transparent communication.
I would love to see your true self rather than the flirty or fake side just to impress me for the short time.
This remind me a beautiful quote here,
Hurt me with the truth but never comfort me with your lies.
2. Attention Is My Hardest Craving
When approaching me, you need to know that your ears are one of the most essential possession I want. Maybe after a long hard day, all I want is to blabber about how the day was and that moment I need you to leave everything aside and just listen to me.
Prioritizing me will be a complimentary gift that will come along with me. So if you really looking for ways to win my heart, do remember this because i can’t have you laying eyes on the cricket match and listening to me half ears.
“At the end of the day its all about priorities,” if I am really important to you, the time in your clock will automatically ring a bell for me!
Learn to get your notifications ON when someone likes you secretly.
3. Be Stupidly Cute
Being stupidly cute doesn’t mean acting dumb. It means while we are texting, I don’t mind you reacting to situations I would least expect you to react towards.
I don’t mind getting those random hugs when it’s not the moment. I don’t mind getting random small notes when I open my eyes. I don’t mind you cooking breakfast for me. I don’t mind when you express periodically about your feelings towards me. I don’t mind standing in the rain and dancing with you. I don’t mind you singing for me even if you are very bad in that.
I don’t mind anything you do to express your love towards me. At the end of the day, your presence and efforts are what make it worthy.
And, there you go…Already won my heart!
4. Respect Is My Greatest Weakness
When you trying hard to get my attention, I want you to know that I love to be respected and valued. I think this is what every one of us desires to be treated like this.
Respecting my choices, actions, opinions, and the whole me will come as a bonus point to top my list.
5. Give Some Space
Everyone loves freedom right? Then why not do the same with your partner?
One can subtly ask their partner for space and move away. In such situations, no one needs to feel bad or fear losing the other.
This time you both are only taking off so that you pick your vulnerable self and return stronger.
Not only that, but the situation will also make you realize how much you love each other. If your partner demands space, just go with the flow and things will go even better than you expected them to be.
If I demand space doesn’t mean I love you less, it is all about syncing and processing the mess with a calm mind in isolation.
If you love her, all you got to do is TRUST.
6. Get To Know Me
You know when we meet someone, it makes us curious about the fact that what they are like, what their past has been like, their likes, dislikes, needs, desires, beliefs, fears, and life dreams.
And something a girl loves is when a guy really asks about her, to genuinely get to know her. I know I like it.
It will help you explore your compatibility with the girl you like. When I find your actions to be this way, it makes me feel even more comfortable and this can be a win-win situation, as I will be ecstatic and you will know me even better. At least you can react accordingly in the future!
She want you as she doesn’t need to hide her emotional side, her ugly side, her madness or craziness. You must listen to every flaw and strength.
If you are inspiring enough, trust me! You are capable enough to win my heart.
Make me feel confident, there is nothing better than that which can make me happy. Tell me your craziest stories, all i want to laugh on top of my lungs.
All these things will not only make me see a different you, but you will also hold a special place in my heart!
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